Weight Loss Goals are REALLY Important

19th December 2009 at 1:21 am

If you stand at the bottom of a mountain and look all the way up to the top… you not only get a crick in your neck, but you can also get that awful sinking feeling as you realise just how far it is to the summit… and how hard it’s going to be to get there.

And it’s the same if you’re overweight and you set a challenging goal… and then realise how much weight that involves losing and how long it’s going to take you.
At NuBeginnings weight loss boot camp we want the view to be as good as possible.

I know from my own experience how daunting this can be – when I was 21 stone the thought of having to lose something over 10 stone (half my body weight!) was almost overwhelming.

So, what to do about it? Suffer and do it anyway? Or just give up and settle for being overweight?

No. Of course not.

The trick is to set yourself frequent, small but challenging mini-goals along the way, and write them down with a date you want to achieve them by, just as I described in my last post.

Then, start working towards your first mini-goal, promising yourself some reward (it doesn’t have to be big, but it’s wise to make it worthwhile so it’ll pull you towards it).

Now, this WORKS. And it works because each mini-goal is inexorably taking you towards your ultimate goal… but it’s small enough not to be overwhelming.

Again, I stress: write these goals down AND put them in the form of a proper plan – because if you don’t, you’ll lose track and without your mini-goals and plan to guide you, you’ll almost certainly miss your ultimate destination.

Weight Loss Boot Camp Sets Your Goals

15th December 2009 at 1:57 am

In my last post, I shared with you how important it is to keep a journal of everything you do, eat, think and feel in pursuit of your goals.

One of the reasons for this, as I said, is we humans are not good at remembering objective facts — our memories are always clouded by emotions, preferences, beliefs and everything else we have going on in our heads.

There’s another reason, too: mindset. At our weight loss boot camp we spend a lot of time focusing on your mindset.

In any endeavour the single-most element in your success is always your WILL to achieve it (for example, doctors know that, medical wizardry notwithstanding, the most important factor in a patient’s survival and recovery is the will to live).

Analogously to the patient’s “will to live”, to achieve your weight-loss and lifestyle goals, you must have… a goal!

Sounds obvious, I know… but a lot of the people I speak to don’t have a goal – or if they do, it’s something nebulous like “I want to lose weight”.

You may have heard of SMART goals before – but here’s a useful version for you to use in losing weight:

Significant. To mean anything your goal has to be clear, unambiguous and meaningful.

Measurable. If you can’t easily measure your progress it means you can’t tell how well you’re doing working to get there AND you won’t know when you’ve arrived.

Achievable. What you’re aiming for has to be physically possible. For example, if Sally is 50 years old and 5′2″ tall, she’s never going to be an Olympic high-jump champion. This is NOT to say, however, she shouldn’t challenge herself and set a goal higher than she thinks she can manage (if you want to hit an eagle, aim for the moon!).

Realistic. Not only does your goal have to be possible, but it’s got to be sensible. For example, if Sally wants to lose 10 stone (which IS achievable), she can’t do it in 2 weeks (that’s NOT realistic).

Time-bound. Your goal must have a deadline. If it doesn’t, then you’ll slack off and tell yourself you’ll get there “whenever”.

In my next post I’ll share a simple tip with you for making even the biggest and most challenging goal easier to reach then you’d even believe possible.

Journaling – I know you’ve heard it before BUT it is true.

14th December 2009 at 9:27 am

One of the most effective things you can do in your weight loss journey will surprise you – because, curiously, it has nothing to do with diet or exercise at all.

It’s simply this: keep a journal.

You should write down everything you eat, the time you ate it, and how you felt before and after eating it. Then you should do the same with your exercise routines – what you did, how long you did it for, and how you felt. And, of course, do the same with all your measurements, so you can track your progress (and do remember it’s the long-term trend we’re interested in, not day-to-day fluctuations in your weight).

OK, so why go to all this trouble?

There are lots of reasons but the two biggest ones are:

1. Anything measured improves. It’s a quirk of human psychology.
What we think happens is your subconscious is alerted to the fact you want to achieve a goal and your continually measuring progress kicks it into gear to help you reach it. This is SO important because it works even if you just measure and don’t make any conscious effort to improve the results you’re measuring.

2. Human perception and memory is really, really bad. If you trust to your memory, it’s going to be coloured by your emotional state. So, if you eat a meal when you’re really hungry, your memory tells you it’s smaller than it was; if you’re really tired during or after exercise, your memory tells you it was harder than it really was and that you did more of it (this is connected with the advice not to go shopping when you’re hungry – you buy more than you want or need because your stomach is telling you what’s in your hands is smaller than it really is!).

By writing it down you have a permanent and objective record of how you’re doing, where you’re going and how you’re getting there.

There’s another benefit, too.

You see, I recommend you make your Journal a daily-commitment. Write down EVERYTHING, even if it’s not connected with your weight-loss per se.

If you have a great idea, write it down; are touched by the lyrics of a song, write it down; hear a funny story, write it down; have one of those “aha!” moments, write it down.

You can use any kind of notebook.

There’s only one “rule”: it mustn’t be loose-leaf and preferably it’ll be bound like a book (spiral-bound is OK, but it’s too easy to tear out “unpleasant” pages!).

However, while anything will suffice, I DO recommend you buy something of high quality. Why? Because it’s a psychological thing: if you’ve paid for a leather-bound journal with hand-made paper, you’re going to be motivated to fill it with ideas, goals, and words of quality and style.

But, no matter what kind of notebook you do choose, you’ll be amazed at the difference a journal makes in your life.